Most people don’t like to be that forward about sex. They don’t want their friends and co-workers to see that they are pursuing casual sex on an app. Labels designating an interest in casual sex need to offer some plausible deniability or else people won’t use them.
- “I want casual, and by casual I mean sex, which could include fwb, ons, or hookups”
- “I want to go on fun, casual dates to get to know you, where “fun” = “an activity that isn’t sex”
- “I want to go on fun, casual dates to get to know you, where “fun” = “an activity that isn’t sex,” but I’m open to that once I get to know you”
