1. New Accessories
If you are into a little Fifty Shades-type action, Valentine’s Day is a great time to purchase new toys,
2. Set The Mood
Set the mood at home with deep red roses, candle light and your favourite music. “Devote time for sense play, titillating your partner’s senses with heat, cold, feathers, silk, leather and all your favourite toys,” says Hall.
3. Dip Your Toes Into Bondage
Bondage can be a wonderful way to connect with your partner. “If you’re not adept at rope play, purchase bed restraints or bondage tape. Be sure to communicate prior to play with your partner, have a safe word, and watch your partner to ensure their safety,” says Hall.
4. Get Kinky
The best kinky sex positions have the dominant partner on top. “Take control and pace between slow and faster rhythms to make your partner ache for more. Lie on your partner in missionary to remind them who’s boss, or take them from behind, which is a great position for some spankings and clitoris play,” says Hall.
5. Use Candles
Massage candles are made of soy wax, so their melt temperature is lower than conventional wax candles. “You can do the kinky ‘pour hot wax on your boo’ thing much more safely, and then, voila – it becomes warm massage oil! Sensual and sexual exploration may proceed,” says Carol Queen, PhD, and Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist. A blindfold used along with this is even kinkier. “This helps the recipient of the hot wax + massage focus on sensory input and makes the experience that much more sexy and intense.”
6. Watch Yourselves Play
Sometimes, watching yourself in the mirror can be incredibly exciting for both of you. But imagine having a mirror just to break out for play. The LUVVU mirror is ideal for couples seeking new ways to enhance their intimacy. This is the world’s first and only detachable round ceiling mirror, created for lovers to enjoy an intimate reflection of their own enjoyment; it provides an erotic visual experience for more intense pleasure. The height and the angle of the LUVVU mirror are adjustable for a range of viewing options. Each mirror has the choice of a clear and red reflection.
7. Something Sweet
A box of standard chocs is so last year. Give it an edge with some romantics pics printed straight onto a cupcake. Lola’s Cupcakes will print a picture of your choosing (nothing too saucy, of course – the poor bakers don’t want to see your junk) at just two days’ notice. A picture of your sweetheart looking good will go down well, or maybe your favourite selfie together.
8. Naughty Photos
But not in the way you think. “A boudoir photo shoot is a triple threat gift! It’s amazing foreplay – posing in sexy lingerie and feeling sexy, an opportunity to push your limits and play up your Fifty Shades fantasies in your naughtiest lingerie, and you get to keep the photos and relive the fantasy time and time again!” says Laurel House the user of REAL SEX CONTACTS.
9. Edible Knickers (And More!)
Want to nibble her panties right off her? Naughty edible undies are where it’s at. 1
